This Couple’s Wedding Combined New Orleans and Indian Traditions—and Featured Multiple Brass Band Parades
Maia Weston and Neil Patel had a classic meet-cute. It was September 2019, and they were at a wedding in Charleston. Neil was the groom’s college roommate, and Maia was a friend of the bride. Although the two had mutual friends and had both attended the University of Georgia, they had never met until then. “We found ourselves sitting next to each other on a sofa at the after-party following the welcome party and couldn’t stop talking,” Maia recalls.
Over the next few months, they kept in touch over text. In November, they met for their first date at Aria Wine Bar in New York’s West Village neighborhood. “Months of non-stop texting since our Charleston meeting had built up a certain amount of anticipation, and I think we were both nervous about whether the evening would measure up,” Maia says. Spoiler alert: It did.
“We didn’t want the night to end,” Maia adds, recalling how they went from dinner to Lower Manhattan dive bars, “until it was well past time to call it a night.”
Maia, a marketing and brand strategist who works with furniture and interior brands, and Neil, an allergist-immunologist, kept dating over the next few months. At the time, Neil was interviewing for his medical residency. Then the pandemic hit, and Maia and Neil spent the first few uncertain months of spring 2020 living together in Neil’s family home in Atlanta. It was just the two of them, because his family had relocated back to Birmingham in the UK, where they are from. “It was a strange and disorienting time,” Maia explains. “But we were solid, even as little else was.”
“In some ways, being forced into that kind of closeness so early told us everything we needed to know,” she adds. Soon after that, Neil moved to Washington, D.C. for his residency at Children’s National Hospital. After two years of dating long-distance, Maia moved there to join him. They now live in Brooklyn.
In May 2024, Neil proposed to Maia on a trip to Santa Margherita Ligure on the Italian Riviera, just outside of Portofino. The trip “had been mostly long walks and lazy afternoons by the pool,” shares Maia. “The setup began, unknown to me, in Florence, where we’d spotted disposable Kodak cameras for sale, and I suggested we each buy one and turn it into a friendly competition: whoever took the best photos by the end of the trip would win,” she explains.
When they planned the trip, Neil knew it would be an ideal place to propose. “However, as we arrived in Santa Margherita, even though I had the ring, the perfect location, the fancy hotel… I still had no idea of how exactly I wanted to propose,” Neil says.
He knew he wanted to have photos of the proposal, but he also knew that he and Maia would prefer the moment to just be between the two of them. Once Maia suggested the photography competition, he came up with a plan. He suggested they take a pre-dinner stroll in a park. Once there, after taking a selfie and a couple of photos of the park, he asked Maia, “Do you really want to win this competition?” and she said yes. He replied, “Well, in that case, I’ll give you the winning photo,” and got down on one knee with the ring in his hand. They took another selfie after she said yes, and Maia used the photos to design their save-the-dates.
Then, of course, came time to plan the wedding. The location was easy: Maia always imagined getting married in her hometown of New Orleans, and Neil was on the same page. The city was also the perfect locale for the kind of wedding Maia and Neil wanted, one that prioritized “good food, good music, and an exceptional guest experience,” Maia says.
“Planning two ceremonies, two celebrations, and a merger of two cultures is a lofty undertaking,” Maia shares. They were able to pull it off with the guidance of their wedding planner, Krystle Burger of Everly Events and Planning. “There is so much revelry in both of our cultures and we wanted to reflect that,” Maia explains, referring to their Indian and New Orleans backgrounds.
The wedding took place on October 17 and October 18, 2025. On Friday, they had a welcome party at a friend’s home, and a Hindu ceremony at Hotel Peter & Paul, a 19th-century Catholic church that has been converted into a venue space. “I loved the irony of having a Hindu wedding set against the lightly patinated walls, stained glass, and subtle grandeur of a former church. Hindu weddings are known for their extravagance, and this space felt like the perfect backdrop,” shares Maia. To kick off the Hindu ceremony, they had a Baraat, in which the groom processes to the wedding venue with his family and friends celebrating along the way while Indian musicians perform.
“When planning the Baraat, it occurred to me that all of the essential elements of a Baraat are also found in traditional New Orleans second lines,” Neil shares. He reached out to Knockaz Brass Band, who came on board to lead a second line that would function as his Baraat. “They were happy to oblige and put on an amazing show for us, which many of the guests were thrilled by,” he says.
Pop Nola built the Mandap (the four-post structure within which an Indian wedding ceremony is performed) and an entrance gate for their Hindu ceremony, and Antigua Floral did the floral decorations. Maia and Neil also combined their cultures when it came to the food for their Friday celebration, with a luncheon catered by Maia’s family’s friends Arvinder and Pardeep Vilkhu’s restaurant Saffron, which combines Indian and New Orleans culinary traditions.
For Saturday, they chose Brennan’s in the French Quarter. “The Chanteclair Room at Brennan’s is a design lover’s dream—there are hand-painted gouache murals of Mardi Gras floats making their way down the avenue, dancing figures, and tropical scenes that are whimsical and sophisticated and celebratory all at once. I am also a sucker for the latticework and checkered floors that adorn the space. The courtyard gave us our second ceremony in a space that feels like a typical New Orleans backyard with overgrown elements all around you,” Maia says.
Lighting was also key. “For Saturday, since we went from day to night, I planned the schedule around phases of the sky. I looked into the exact timing of nautical twilight and built the day around it: our ceremony began at sundown, and by the time it ended, it was civil twilight. The second line went through nautical twilight, and by the time it ended, the city faded into dark. We watched the sun disappear completely throughout the procession before moving inside for the reception and dancing,” says Maia.
Maia found her main wedding dress at Bergdorf Goodman, where she had made an appointment to try Danielle Frankel gowns with her mother, her sister, and her sister-in-law. “Toward the end of the appointment, I tried on the Leighton and my sister immediately burst into tears. I don’t typically let other people's opinions dictate my fashion choices, but her reaction was so visceral, and the moment felt so special with all of the women in my life present, that I knew,” Maia says.
For their Hindu ceremony, the couple shopped together at Nazranaa, with Maia choosing a red lehenga embellished with flowers and crystals and Neil selecting a traditional Sherwani with a red Dupatta (scarf) to match Maia. For the Saturday ceremony, Neil wore a custom suit by Craig Robinson of Robinson Brooklyn.
For their welcome party, Maia wore an ivory matching set from Sandy Liang. “I love how Sandy combines tailoring with almost coquettish details, and I loved how the skirt’s subtle low rise gave the entire look a slight edge. The party was themed Oyster Shells and Wedding Bells, so I nodded to this with large silver oyster earrings I found shopping the day before with my sister at Mignon Faget, a local New Orleans jeweler I’ve shopped from since I was a girl, and paired them with an Elsa Peretti cuff Neil gave me for my 30th birthday,” Maia says. She completed the look with silvery-blue Manolo Blahnik floral brocade slingbacks sourced from TheRealReal.
Her reception dress has a story, too. “I had pre-ordered a Rodarte dress from Moda with a center floral appliqué. The week it was due to ship, it was delayed and wouldn’t arrive in time. As a contingency, I had booked an appointment with Eva Lopez at Cha Cha Linda vintage in Greenpoint, where I had one of the best shopping experiences of my life,” Maia says. “Eva pulled pieces based on my measurements, and we spent the better part of two hours pairing floral appliques and tulle to create something close to the Rodarte vision. What we landed with was better than anything I had planned.”
Eva introduced Maia to M&S Schmalberg, “the last remaining handmade fabric flower maker in New York’s garment district that supplies to major fashion houses and costume designers,” Maia says. “I went one afternoon to their workroom and sorted through boxes of handmade flowers to find one that would complement the light pink embellishment on the dress I’d chosen, which was a vintage David Fielden gown with a very ethereal loop back detail.” Finally, for their after-party at The Gold Mine Saloon, a historic dive bar, Maia wore a white leather square-neck Bottega Veneta mini dress.
On Saturday, Maia walked down the aisle to “Dreams” by The Cranberries, performed by a string trio. “My brother read from Shakespeare, and Reverend Allen Barrera officiated our admittedly very brisk, but warm, ceremony,” Maia says. The newlyweds recessed to “Wedding March” by Mendelssohn and then “Wouldn’t It Be Nice” by The Beach Boys.
After the ceremony on Saturday, their guests “spilled out into the streets for a second line led by brass band Knockaz, “ushered by a procession of Mardi Gras Indians in full regalia,” Maia says. Later, they had a cocktail-style dinner at their reception at Brennan’s, featuring boudin balls, raw oysters, and turtle soup. For dessert, they had bananas foster—a dish that originated at Brennan’s, which was flambéed in the courtyard—and a wedding cake by Gambino’s. They danced their first dance to “God Only Knows” by the Beach Boys, a song Maia had wanted from the very beginning.
Reflecting on the ceremony, Maia shares: “I’m naturally shy and have never loved being the center of attention. And I’ll be honest, I never imagined I’d have a big wedding. With two large families, it was somewhat unavoidable. But the moment I saw Neil, everything slowed down.” She adds: “Having every person from every chapter of your life gathered in one place is a feeling that is almost impossible to describe. It doesn't happen often. It might only happen once. Standing in that courtyard and throughout our celebrations, I understood that.”








































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